We are like two ships on a narrow river which can only fit one ship .. If one of us dont sink , we will collide & sink even deeper . Therefore , I decided to sink , so that you can have a safe journey .
So touching right ? T.T But the ending of this book is =.= . & I've been thinking about this line for one whole day liaos lors .
Maybe , just maybe , I should do the same too . What for continue when both of us are miserable . I dont feel happy , you dont too . If one of us gives up , will you be happier ?
I've been busy nowadays .
Byebyes !
:D
Meditation .
Saturday, September 20, 2008|11:58 PM
Quite long since I last posted . Just a short post for now .
Thought about alot of things in the past week .
I learnt a few things ,
- To let go - To give up - To relax - To think of absolutely nothing - Meditation
Yups , these few .
I learnt that if you love someone too much , that person is not going to be comfortable & you in the end will be miserable . Therefore you have to let go , to lessen everyone's pain .
To give up , means to not care about anything anymore . If you dont care about anything , you wont feel hurt , angry , depressed anymore . Isnt that good ?
To relax . Because when I'm tense I will want to shit . So I have to relax .
To think of absolutely nothing . To just stare into blank space for a few minutes & let my mind & body relax . Just relaxing . & not thinking of anything . Escape reality for awhile .
Meditation . Sit on the floor . Clear your mind . Close your eyes . Slowly , let the problems creep in . Think with a calm mind how to solve them one by one . Acting rashly does not help anything .
& Yes , some people have said that I should be a counselor . But , if I cant even solve my own problems , how am I able to help others with theirs ?
I also dont know how I do it . I'm able to give advice , but I'm not able to solve my own problems . Of course , I wont talk about my problems . I will never talk about them unless asked to do so .
I'm not a big fan of talking . I do talk much , but there are many times when I prefer to be quiet & all alone .
I like the serenity ^^
Hahahahahas , I dont know . Weather is hot .
Humans have ugly sides . That includes physically .
I'm not talking sense .
Byebyes .
:D
I dont know .
Sunday, September 14, 2008|12:38 AM
I dont know , I really dont know what to post . Yes , I want to blog , but I dont know what to blog . I want to rant about something , but later people will ask me what happen & I really dont like that .
Fine I shall not care . I will rant .
Okay I really dislike people who act as if nothing has happened after we had a quarrel . Seriously , it just makes me angry all over again . I mean like , we just quarreled 5 minutes ago , & now you're talking to me as if nothing happened ?
I expect an apology , at least . & Yes , I blew up at my sister yesterday , cause she kept acting normal after quarreling , just to avoid apologising . I'm not going to let her off that easily .
She apologised to me through MSN , to my mum on a paper , & to my dad in viwawa . Cant she just say "Sorry" to me in my face ?
I rather hear one sorry from her , sincerly , without Singlish , than seeing 1000 sorrys from her in MSN or what .
I scolded her yesterday . Yeahs , I dont like her . She's always irritating me . But what can I do ? She's my sister .
Fine . Okay . Another one .
I dislike people who pity themselves so much !
I mean like , selfpity sometimes is good , but if you do it always , its going to be irritating .
I pity myself too , at times . But only for awhile . After that , I will tell myself , "Yups , there are people in this world worse then me . I was pitying myself then , now its time to move on & find things to make myself happy ."
I learnt it from "Tuesdays with Morrie" .
I really cannot stand people who KEEPS ON pitying themselves . They are just making a mountain out of a molehill , storm in a teacup , whatever .
Yeahs , I'm those kind of person , when I dont like anything about you , I'll keep it to myself . When I cannot tahan anymore , I will just scream & shout & spill everything out .
If I ever do this to anyone , that person wont be my friend anymore . Is like , when I do that , means I really cannot tahan anymore .
& if that person comes & act normal , I will get angry again & the whole cycle repeats itself . Just like my sister .
Okay . I've finished ranting . Each time I'm angry , the words just flow .
Since young , I've always been a perfectionist . I always wanted my things to be perfect . If something was imperfect , into the dustbin it goes .
Especially for drawing . You can ask anyone in my family . I can take one hour to draw something & keeps on asking if its nice or not . After 5 minutes , if I dont think its nice , I'll just chuck it into the dustbin .
I can keep on drawing & drawing until I finds that its okay .
For bags also . It takes me months & months to find a suitable bag , & if I anyhow buy a bag , just for the sake of buying , I will only use it once or twice before I will just put it aside . But once I've got the perfect bag , I can use that bag for months , or years .
For highlighting also . If I highlight until very ugly , I will highlight over to make it better . Although its usually turns out more ugly , cause its darker , but I will always subconciously do it .
Hahahahahaas .
If I want to put videos inside my phone , I also want the videos to be perfect . The 1st time i put them in , there was this word , which I forgot , which is in the middle of the video .
So I deleted it .
The second time , the sound effect was terrible .
So I deleted it .
The third time , its good ! In my phone its clear , but small . But its supposed to be small , so yeahs . But it other people's phone , its blur .
I'm not going to do anything anymore . In my phone , its perfect .
Hahahahaas .
Fine . I like things to be perfect . Who cares . I wont be updating until .. I dont know . Until I feel like updating .
So yeahs , here's a video to listen to while I'm not around .
(: Byebyes & gudnyts .
:D
hahahahahaas !
Sunday, September 07, 2008|10:23 PM
I'm quite excited yups ! I know lahs , tomorrow school reopen . & THATS WHY I'm excited . Fine , I'm crazy . Who cares !
I get to see all the people I didnt see during the holidays ! Hahahhahahaas .
& I blingbling-ed my handphone , calculator & psp ! The psp one is the most beautiful one . & it shimmers so brightly , in the sun & at night !
I shall take photos of it when I go out in the sun tomorrow ! Shiny things make Felicia happy !!!! :D
But then .. I'm abit sian to go to school tomorrow . How I wish school starts at 1pm ! T.T
Neverminds , I got my handphone to accompany me ! My bling bling handphone ! Bling bling bling , shiny shine shine !
I'm crapping . Shit . I'm tired . Gudnyts .
:D
Fine .
|12:38 AM
Okay , fine , post saved as draft . Sort of like , I deleted it .
Thats all .
:D
I hate it lors !
Saturday, September 06, 2008|2:01 AM
Its 2am now .
Wo yao shui jiaoooooo ):
But hors , thats what I hate lahs , as stated in my title . I show you !
Mind : Wahlaos , tired liaos . Orh orh liaos . Heart : Dont want lahs ! Sleep so early for what . Mind : Then I can rest whats ! Heart : Everything also you you you ! Think of me for once lahs ! Mind : Bloody hell , what you want me to think about you ?! I'm tired lahs ! Heart : Oh , somebody's cranky . Mind : I'm not ! Its bloody 2am you know ?! Any normal person is sleeping now ! Heart : Is it ? Then go sleep lors . Childish . Mind : WHAT YOU SAY ? Heart : Oh , nothing . (A)
See ?! Okay then I go & sleep liaos . My mind is starting to hurt liaos . Gudnyts .
):
Thursday, September 04, 2008|11:22 PM
My blog is so dead .
But it also means good things uhs , means that I can gossip & talk about anyone/anything here , without having to think of what to blog before blogging .
For those who cant understand , it means , blogging more naturally . :D
But I also want people to tag lehs ! If not I feel so sian sial .
& I KEEP ON BUYING THINGS THESE FEW DAYS ! Tsk , I'll be the death of myself !
Buy buy buy , like as if I got alot of money like that T.T I'm trying to scrimp & save every dollarrrrrrr , by eating pizza each day I'm home !
Its not pizzahut's pizza . Is those readymade & you can just heat it up to eat it those kind . Yups .